Sacred sex has multiple meanings depending on the context. In a strictly religious sense, it can be a term for sex magic and sex rituals including but not limited to tantra. Yet, I think sacred sex in everyday life is the ability to be fully present in acts of pleasure. Sacred sex is the realization that sex and sexuality is a spiritual endeavor. It connects us to the divine within and without. It is about honoring, appreciating and uniting with other human beings. In sacred sex, we often realize the interdependence and “oneness” of all that is. But more simply, I think the one and only rule of sacred sex is that everyone involved is” safely” enjoying themselves.